Friday, May 23, 2008

Questions...

Shall I just jump him, and then see where the cards fall and what, if anything, either of us does about the future, including keeping/abandoning the friendship?

Will this phase of "who am I, where am I going?" ever end? Will I be satisfied with the answers?

Is appreciating a person sufficient substitute for not loving them? Particularly if they love you?

Is not appreciating a person enough reason to leave them? Even if they love you?

Is being a 'mama's boy' more often than being 'my man' a deal breaker?

What does it take to cut up an ex-boyfriend into 300 pieces before packing him up in a bag and strolling out with a big smile? Do guys worry about things like that when they callously mess with their girlfriends?

How does the American populace choose the right American idol and not the right President?

How many of us would dump our current spouses never to look back in the event of a 'one-time-only-no-repurcussions-guaranteed' offer? For all those who raised their hands, what are the repurcussions, the fear of which keeps us together? Is fear a good enough reason to be married?

Would you give up your high-powered career if it meant having a person worthy of you in your life who loves you unendingly, passionately, completely?

Would you give up a person you love if it meant having your career reach dizzying heights of success and fame?

Will starting a new story/post/screenplay ever get easier? Or will I always look for things to do just to delay facing the blinking cursor on a screen?

Sigh.

4 comments:

themidnightspecial said...

You're talking... good.

Searcher said...

:-) Thanks, i think.

Another Girl said...

I had way too much time on my hand today I guess...so am writing what w'd i do if it were me....

Shall I just jump him?

I think you shd take life less seriously. Just Jump him.(And no..I am not 'him')


Will this phase of "who am I, where am I going?" ever end? Will I be satisfied with the answers?

Again, don't take your life so seriously. You don't have to figure all this out at once


Is being a 'mama's boy' more often than being 'my man' a deal breaker?

Oh Hell Yes! For me at least.

What does it take to cut up an ex-boyfriend into 300 pieces before packing him up in a bag and strolling out with a big smile?

Now this, my friend you should blog. I mean not your POA on how you will cut your ex-bf into 300 pieces....but what did he do to deserve this. :)

How does the American populace choose the right American idol and not the right President?

A majority of them are not smarter than a 5th grader....remember?

How many of us would dump our current spouses never to look back in the event of a 'one-time-only-no-repurcussions-guaranteed' offer? For all those who raised their hands, what are the repurcussions, the fear of which keeps us together? Is fear a good enough reason to be married?

Ooooo when I am single, this is one of my most delicious fantasy! And I justify it in my mind by saying that monogamy is a 'not-natural'. We are animals at the end of it all. When I am not-single, I don't know what keeps me from doing it. I think deep with it is it some fear of 'bad karma'. If there were 'no' such thing as bad Karma, I think I would do it. But I would never ever want my partner to do it. In other words, ideally, I would want to have my cake and eat it too.

Would you give up your high-powered career if it meant having a person worthy of you in your life who loves you unendingly, passionately, completely?

Since my career is down in the dumps at the moment, so I feel all my attention and priority in my life now w'd be towards searching for that 'Mr Effing Right'. But if I have a satisfying, enjoyable career, then I would be wiser, not so desperate for a man, and make better choices than giving up my career for a man. I think it is just a matter of how satisfied and happy you are in your life. That happiness can come from a job you love or a man you love.

Would you give up a person you love if it meant having your career reach dizzying heights of success and fame?

Isnt it the same as the question above??I guess I am not the only one with too much time on her hands :-p

Will starting a new story/post/screenplay ever get easier? Or will I always look for things to do just to delay facing the blinking cursor on a screen?

Ah...reminds me of my school days. How I did everything any anything to avoid start reading that chapter before the exams. Like going on a gazzilion 'breaks' to the kitchen for water and snacks. But despite how grim the situation looked...I still made it pretty well thro the exams. Don't worry girl, inspiration will strike....till then why don't you take grab a snack and take a short nap? :)

Searcher said...

hey another girl,

the 300 pieces was an actual news story of an actual person and his girlfriend. horrifying, right?

yes, i jumped him. the aftermath is coming up in one of my posts, soon... once i wrap my head around it.

the spouse question wasn't linked to career.. but i can see what you meant about repetition. Shall try to avoid in the future :-)

Thanks for writing in